The main grievances of fathers against sons relate to lack of respect, hard work, discipline, thrift , ambition, responsibility and rationality. The tiffs between parents and children are consequence. It’s the same story in every home having grown-up children. the difference may be only in periodicity or extent. The children above the age of 16 are grown-up. They should be encouraged to conduct themselves independently.
The regular communication between the children and parents is necessary for proper rapport. This should be in a relaxed atmosphere, say family get-to-gether at breakfast/lunch/dinner. The children should be free to express themselves/exchange views.
Besides entertainment, periodical outings is a good idea for promoting family bond and better understanding between the parents and children.
It is the responsibility of the parents to provide balanced nourishing for children and educate them calorie-needs of the body.
The children should be mentally prepared for independent earning after completing education. They cannot be dependant for all times.