Parenting teenage boys is a daunting task for the simple reason that they do not open up to anyone and it becomes difficult to ascertain their state of mind. Most of the teenagers feel it necessary to suppress of mask feelings such as fear, uncertainty, and loneliness since the society teaches them as undesirable or unacceptable qualities, and rather consider that they should be handling their problems alone. Thus, a teenage boy may be cheerful and resilient on the outside, while the reality might be much different. Those who would be in a position to help would thus be deceived into thinking that no help is required.
Parents would be in the best position to see through the “mask.” Early signs on trouble include falling grades, pans of irritation or violent behavior, remaining quiet, which would be the earliest signs of depression and the like. Parents should start probing on discovery of such early signs. However, it is important not to push or nag him. The key to make them reveal their true feelings is patience. It might take several attempts or even days before the boy decides to open up and it is important that the parent remains gentle and kind all this while.