Do your kids like doing chores? You know, clearing the dishes, mowing the lawn or even, tidying up their own rooms? Chances are no, they probably hate it and each time you ask, it leads to arguments and yelling. So, what does a parent do?
Simple, use strategies and tips that children understand and work with. Here are some ideas to help you get started.
Create a Chore and Reward Chart – A chart which lists all the chores that you want your child to do and a star/stars against each. Have a simple reward system. Say, five stars a kid gets to eat a special dessert of his choice but within a budget specified by you.
Show them Consequences- So, if you have a child who refuses to clear dishes or tidy up, let the dirty dishes remain and let the room be messy. Even when he has friends over. In other words, let him see the results of his actions.
Never belittle or scorn – This is true for any situation. Treat a child with respect. Never make fun of his habits, irritating though they maybe. And never belittle him or her in front of friends, relatives or even, siblings.
These are just a few suggestions to help get you started with having children help you more around the house.