How to Manage Tantrums

We’ve all faced it at some time or the other. A howling, screaming toddler yelling for that toy or chocolate while you stand watching embarrassed and wishing for the ground to open up and swallow you. But don’t worry. You aren’t alone. Tantrums and toddlers generally go hand in hand. It is a part of growing up and as with nearly all things toddler related, will surely pass. So, till then, here are a few ways to cope with toddler tantrums. 1. Stay calm. I know it is easier said than done. However, if you, too, lose your cool there will be more yelling than ever. So, stay calm and in control. 2. Distract your toddler and show him something that will catch his attention and yet not be something that he’ll want. The birds in the sky, a tree, a lovely flower anything to divert him will be good. 3. Hold him close and rock him. Offer him a drink of water or something to eat. Usually toddlers throw tantrums when they are tired, hungry or thirsty. 4. Walk away. If your toddler is throwing a tantrum in the middle of the supermarket and all other calming efforts have failed, walk away. Chances are your toddler will follow you. Don’t disappear from sight since that will really worry the little one but just make sure he gets the message. For more on dealing with tantrums, do read Parenting Toddlers. It will give you more tips and advice on how to handle toddlers.