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		<title>Cooking With Your Children</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/25/cooking-your-children</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 21:50:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Wilcox</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children are notoriously picky eaters, and it can be hard to encourage healthy eating when your child is a die-hard fan of nuggets and french fries. It&#8217;s important not to give in to their demands, but how do you get them to eat the right stuff? One great way to encourage healthy eating and build...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Children are notoriously picky eaters, and it can be hard to encourage healthy eating when your child is a die-hard fan of nuggets and french fries. It&#8217;s important not to give in to their demands, but how do you get them to eat the right stuff? One great way to encourage healthy eating and build a strong relationship with your child is to let your children help prepare the meals.</p>
<p>Cooking with your children is a fun activity, but safety is always a concern. Children should be old enough to listen to and follow your directions for their own safety in the kitchen. You can also create a safe environment by keeping your children&#8217;s cooking area away from any hot surfaces that they may hurt themselves.</p>
<p>When cooking with your children, be sure to pick out the recipe in advance and familiarize yourself with it first. You should know all the ingredients and steps by heart so that you can do your part while instructing your children. Knowing the steps will also help you decide what our child can and can not help out with. Choose steps in the direction that don&#8217;t require sharp objects or hot surfaces. Directions that can incorporate you and your child (or children) are especially good for bonding. You should also make sure the recipe is simple enough that there isn&#8217;t any confusion about what to do.</p>
<p>Children will be more likely to eat meals that they prepared because they will be proud of what they accomplished. It also lets them feel like they have had a say in the decision-making process. Cooking with your children can be a rewarding way to prepare a healthy, delicious meal that everyone in the family can enjoy.</p>
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		<title>Are Your Kids Ready for a Puppy?</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/23/your-kids-ready-for-puppy</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 01:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Wilcox</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many parents have or will one day be faced with the dilemma of whether or not to add a pet to the family. Of course dogs are the most common family pet, and they also require quite a bit of work. Despite your child&#8217;s desire for a new four-legged friend, you should ask yourself if...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many parents have or will one day be faced with the dilemma of whether or not to add a pet to the family. Of course dogs are the most common family pet, and they also require quite a bit of work. Despite your child&#8217;s desire for a new four-legged friend, you should ask yourself if you are actually ready for the responsibility that comes along with a puppy.</p>
<p>The first thing to consider when deciding whether or not to add a puppy to your household is how much time you have to contribute to a puppy. Puppies in particular need lots of attention, and they can cause a lot of damage &#8211; do you really have the time to potty-train a puppy and take it on daily walks? Remember that you and your spouse (if you have one) will most likely be the primary caretaker of the puppy, or at least be the go-to caretaker when your children forget to feed the dog. If you work long hours and are not home much, you may want to consider either a grown dog or a less high-maintenance animal such as a cat or hamster.</p>
<p>Another consideration is the ages of your children. If your children are young (under 10,) you will likely carry the burden of taking care of the puppy for several years before you can expect your children to do so. You also need to be honest with yourself about your child&#8217;s level of responsibility &#8211; no matter how much a child promises they will take care of the puppy, you probably have some sort of instinct as to whether this is true or not. If you fear that your child&#8217;s level of dedication may not be up to puppy expectations, suggest getting a small animal like a hamster or a lizard first to see if your child will actually take care of it. At least if you get stuck taking care of the animal, it won&#8217;t need to be potty-trained or walked daily!</p>
<p>If you do decide to proceed with the puppy plan, here are a few considerations to make the process a bit more manageable. When deciding on breeds, take into consideration your own experience with dogs. Toy breeds seem easy, but they can also be quite a hassle because of their high energy. They also tend to bond with one person, and it may not be your children. Large dogs always take more work and cost more because they require more walking and more food. Breeds with a heavy undercoat shed more than those breeds without, and long fur needs brushed regularly. </p>
<p>One of the best decisions you can make if you decide to get a puppy for your family is to adopt from a shelter. Shelter employees are trained at figuring out what type of dog would be a good match for you based on your job, experience and lifestyle. You will not only have a better chance at a great match, you will be saving a puppy&#8217;s life!</p>
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		<title>Teach only what is necessary</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/22/teach-only-necessary</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 20:28:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Learning about death is never easy, especially since you will not truly understand it until someone close to you has died. No matter what age you are it is never easy to accept the fact that someone close will no longer be around. But since it is a lesson that you will eventually have to...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Learning about death is never easy, especially since you will not truly understand it until someone close to you has died. No matter what age you are it is never easy to accept the fact that someone close will no longer be around. But since it is a lesson that you will eventually have to go through you will need to try to at least teach your child about how life-and-death works. No matter what your belief is as far as where someone goes when he dies you need to prepare your child so that when he does experience the lesson, he will not be totally devastated over the death. </p>
<p>Children do understand a lot more than what adults give them credit for so when you go to explain death to your child make sure that it is appropriate to his age level and mentality. This is important because though children are capable of understanding difficult situations in life, they do not need to be given information that will not pertain to them. Some of the information that your child will not need to know about is what truly happens to the body after it is dead. For some reason, parents tend to give out too much information about death and not just the basics that are needed.  </p>
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		<title>Teaching hard life lessons</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/20/teaching-hard-life-lessons</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 10:47:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Raising children is never easy, especially when you find that you are doing it alone because the other parent has walked out of your child’s life. Though it can be a traumatic situation for both, you and your child, it will be less of an emotional feeling if you as the parent display a sense...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Raising children is never easy, especially when you find that you are doing it alone because the other parent has walked out of your child’s life. Though it can be a traumatic situation for both, you and your child, it will be less of an emotional feeling if you as the parent display a sense if happiness with life. That is not to say that you should’t teach your child that he cannot be sad that his dad walked out on him, but you must show your child that his life will still be adjust as great without a father around. </p>
<p>No matter what age is of the child by instilling this in him right away he will begin to understand that he cannot let one person no matter who they are, control his happiness. Children who grow up learning not to let bad situations control their life will be able to advance further in life than their peers who have not learned this lesson at a young age. As a parent it is your job to make sure that your child grows into the adult that he needs to be so that other problems in life will not get him down, and you can make the fact that his dad walked out on him a great stepping stone for this life lesson. </p>
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		<title>Make your child’s dream a reality</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/15/make-your-childs-dream-reality</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 19:45:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When a parent realizes that their child has true talent in something that could possibly make the family wealthy it is a hard decision as to whether or not they should subject them to the entertainment world at a young age. Making such a decision for your child could hinder them from growing up without...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When a parent realizes that their child has true talent in something that could possibly make the family wealthy it is a hard decision as to whether or not they should subject them to the entertainment world at a young age. Making such a decision for your child could hinder them from growing up without the stresses of an adult. It is the parent&#8217;s job to protect their child so if they feel as though they can protect their child from the negative elements in entertainment while making money, then they should at least give it a try. This will teach your child not to be afraid of anything and to go after their dream. </p>
<p>Children who learn to go after their dreams at a young age grow up to be independent strong adults. Knowing that this is what every parent wants for their child it is amazing how some parents refuse to let their children go after their dreams, especially when they see their talent. By doing this as a parent you are hindering your child’s dreams and ability to make money at a young age which could help in their future education and with the family at the particular time. </p>
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		<title>Dance is a positive way to communicate</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/15/dance-positive-way-communicate</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 19:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dancing is a sign of emotion for some people that other wise they would not be able to communicate. That is why it is imperative that parent’s make sure their child learns to communicate in a way that makes them comfortable. Communication is the only way to tell someone what you are thinking, and it...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dancing is a sign of emotion for some people that other wise they would not be able to communicate. That is why it is imperative that parent’s make sure their child learns to communicate in a way that makes them comfortable. Communication is the only way to tell someone what you are thinking, and it is the only way that someone else can help you when you are in trouble. If a child does not learn how to communicate by way of verbal communication, then every parent should make sure that he can at least be expressive it in dance. </p>
<p>Though this may sound strange to many people as a parent, it is not strange, especially if you notice that verbal communication is not your child’s strong point. Sometimes by taking a dance routine and turning it into a way to communicate for your child, he will be able to get his aggression out while still letting others know what the problem is so that they too can help. Dancing is also great for a physical activity as well, and this is the best way to get your child involved in an art form that is positive in every aspect of life.</p>
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		<title>What Makes a Dad Paternal?</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/14/makes-dad-paternal</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 05:07:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Wilcox</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most women seem to have a maternal instinct that kicks in when they become mothers, but I often wonder what is it that causes some men to have such a sincere paternal instinct while others feel no attachment to their children? My father has often told me that he considers me to be &#8220;the best...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most women seem to have a maternal instinct that kicks in when they become mothers, but I often wonder what is it that causes some men to have such a sincere paternal instinct while others feel no attachment to their children?</p>
<p>My father has often told me that he considers me to be &#8220;the best thing that has ever happened to him.&#8221; It&#8217;s a wonderful feeling; not just the compliment, but to know that my dad is that elusive father with an even stronger bond to his child than the child&#8217;s mother. When I was younger, I took it for granted that all children were as lucky me in having such a great dad. It wasn&#8217;t till I was older that I realized I was so lucky.</p>
<p>So what is it that makes some dads paternal and others not? I don&#8217;t know that there really is a good answer to that. There are good men who don&#8217;t show any affection to their children, and there are bad men who can be completely turned around by having a child. It seems to be completely dependent on the individual. But considering the inability to predict, I think it&#8217;s even more important to celebrate good fathers everywhere.</p>
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		<title>Let her grow</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/13/let-her-grow</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 21:58:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Watching your child walk for the first time is both exciting and scary at the same time. That is because you know that she will have to walk through life, and yet you are frightened that she will fall and hurt herself. These emotions carry on in a parent no matter how old their child...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Watching your child walk for the first time is both exciting and scary at the same time. That is because you know that she will have to walk through life, and yet you are frightened that she will fall and hurt herself. These emotions carry on in a parent no matter how old their child is when they see them do something for the first time. Parents are always going to be concerned about their child, but it is the concerned parent who allows their child to fall when he begins to walk that will have created a confident person. </p>
<p>Children who are coddled will continue to expect this into adulthood, and they will be the same person who refuses to try anything new in life. When a parent creates this personality in their child, they are just asking for their child not to grow up. Not wanting to your child to grow up is expected, but it is not rational and as a parent you should know better. Every child must eventually become an adult so make sure that you raise a confident adult so that one day he will be able to leave your nest and fly off into the world. </p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t let a stranger teach him</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/13/dont-let-stranger-teach-him</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 21:34:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Angela Brown</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children grow up so fast and as a parent you will miss it if you are not involved in your child&#8217;s life daily. That is why it is important for a parent to constantly be around their child not only watch him grow up but also to teach him about life. Without you being around...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Children grow up so fast and as a parent you will miss it if you are not involved in your child&#8217;s life daily. That is why it is important for a parent to constantly be around their child not only watch him grow up but also to teach him about life. Without you being around for those moments that really count your child will learn about life from a stranger. There is no parent who wants to encourage a stranger to teach their child the importance of being an adult. </p>
<p>So remember that no matter what you go through in your relationship with the other parent make sure that you are always there for your child. By him seeing how the two of you can communicate when it comes to him will show him how to overcome obstacles in his way as he grows up. Children learn from what they see and by allowing him to see positive behavior when it comes to a big responsibility, he will be less likely walking away from anything important in his life. Responsibility is not only taught through words but also by action so displaying the behavior is just as important as talking about it. </p>
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		<title>Teach Healthy by Being Healthy</title>
		<link>http://www.active-parenting.com/archives/2012/01/13/teach-healthy-by-being-healthy</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 20:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Wilcox</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[With childhood obesity on the rise, many parents wonder what they can do to help their children lead active, healthy lives. The simplest way to encourage children to eat healthy and maintain an active lifestyle is to teach by example. Parents who want their children to be healthy must teach by example. Healthy eating habits...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With childhood obesity on the rise, many parents wonder what they can do to help their children lead active, healthy lives. The simplest way to encourage children to eat healthy and maintain an active lifestyle is to teach by example. Parents who want their children to be healthy must teach by example.</p>
<p>Healthy eating habits start at home. Teaching children what is real food as opposed to packaged junk is a start. To further help children make healthy eating choices, parents can limit the amount of processed foods in the home, as well as eat as many healthy meals together as possible. Even if parents aren&#8217;t concerned with losing weight themselves, it&#8217;s important that they eat healthy foods and act as a role model to children. A fun way to teach children that healthy choices have more benefits than unhealthy choices is to reward children for making a healthy decision on their own. Make sure the reward is something good for them like going to the park or a toy that promotes activity; it&#8217;s counterproductive to reward a child with ice cream for making a healthy eating choice.</p>
<p>Activity level is also highly dependent on parents. It&#8217;s important for parents to actively participate in their children&#8217;s lives to ensure the children are kept busy without watching too much TV or playing on the internet. Be sure to take children on frequent outings that require walking like grocery trips and park play dates. Sign them up for new activities and be their biggest supporter. Even if they&#8217;re not interested in all of the activities, they&#8217;ll find something they like which they can stick to for many years to come.</p>
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